DATING And How Did We Get Here (BIOLOGICAL LAWS)

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The most easiest thing in the world to do in The Dating Market is to stop doing it, but that is not the answer to the questions a person might have.  To "Give Up" is admitting defeat. That you have been beat by a few obstacles in the path of BIOLOGICAL LAW.

Biological laws, or biological rules, are general principles that describe patterns in living organisms. They are often used to explain complex observations about the ecology and distribution of species. 

Examples of biological laws:

• The laws of thermodynamics: All living organisms obey the laws of thermodynamics, which govern energy transformations and mass distribution. 
• Evolution: All living organisms arose through an evolutionary process. 
• The law of mass conservation: Introduced by Lomonosov and Lavoisier. 
• The first law of thermodynamics: Energy cannot be created or destroyed in an isolated system. 
The second law of thermodynamics: The entropy of any isolated system always increases. 

Other biological principles: 

central dogma, biological robustness, regeneration, reproduction, development, and causality.

How biological laws are developed

Biological laws are often developed as succinct ways to explain complex phenomena. They are based on the analysis of empirical evidence. 

Exceptions to biological laws

While biological laws are described as rules, there are often many exceptions to them. 

The Dating Market has a goal, and part of the goal is the principle of reproduction.

DATING And how Did We Get Here (NEVER BEEN ON A DATE)

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Being drunk is experiencing the loss of control and dating has many control factors. Some people have attempted to cheat The Dating Market with creating their own rules of dating.

If a person has never been on a date, that person is confused as to what role they should be in hosting or being a guest.

Hosting requires a person to carry a conversation, making plans, and paying for things as entertainment, and being a guest requires a person to carry a conversation, being appreciative, and accepting the entertainment from the host.

There's a loss of control over these situations if a person must play a role for a long period of time for the uncertain result of a relationship at the end of the event. Such a fear of loosing control may come in conflict with the need to be loved or the need to love someone else besides themselves.

The Dating Market is a machine that is powered by love. Once someone tries to pour something different into the machine it will not work.

Control belongs in The Dating Market machine, but it must be fueled and control can never fuel dating, because two people must agree to a middle ground while dating.

DATING And How Did We Get Here (PORNOGRAPHY)

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Let's all admit pornography is real and it plays a part in The Dating Market. It shapes what a watcher believes are expected of them. I would bet money that guys in the 1970's applied for pizza delivery jobs at a skyrocketing level. Or for instance, the Hawk Tuah girl who went popular over a street interview question is an example of what a average looking girls thinks men want....to spit on their genitals.

Before pornography, the idea of spitting on genitals would be unheard of. The #MeToo Movement has thrown cold water on many fantasies men had about secretaries and babysitters. 

Whether or not men wanted to date those secretaries or babysitters, we may never know now. But, men have accepted the option that workplace intercourse is forbidden. And so The Dating Market has closed a door on an option that often resulted in marriage...and later divorce.

Average women who never learned what men valued outside of sex only used sex to enter The Dating Market. It started with Jennifer Lopez and her butt. Which has resulted in the Brazilian Butt Lift industry.

After a time, Jennifer Lopez was replaced by Kim Kardashian.

Pornography not only entered The Dating Market, it also entered what we consider right or wrong and good or bad.

If you do a street interview in Russia and asked a man what he is looking before he decides to date a woman, at no point will he say "Hawk Tuah!"

DATING And How Did We Get Here (TERRORISM)

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A feminist is someone who supports gender equality and the rights of women, and works to end sexism and oppression. Feminism is a political ideology and social movement that advocates for equal rights and opportunities for all people, regardless of gender. 

The Dating Market has been invaded by the propaganda of oppression.

ter·ror·ist

/ˈterərəst/

noun

1. a person who uses unlawful violence and intimidation, especially against civilians, in the pursuit of political aims.

The Dating Market is a new concept, in the 1800's, couples engaged in courting and that word shouldn't be confused with dating. Courting involved visiting houses, talking, cooking, sometimes sports. No money was needed to be spent, unlike dating. If one person fell out of interest with the other person, both people had to start over from the beginning stage again with a different person in order to find love.

The Dating Market, however, has rules created in the 1950's. And in the 1960's, those rules became tools of a war. The terrorist entered dating to wage war against their target using the tools and the expectations of couples looking to find partnerships.

The telephone, the car, the dinner, the sex, everything that courting never had and dating replaced, now became a battlefield for a winner.

A terrorist in dating never wants to win love. Their politics only wants destruction.

 

DATING And How Did We Get Here (HYPERGAMY)

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Hypergamy is the practice of marrying or dating someone of a higher social status or wealth. It can also refer to marrying someone who is perceived as more successful or secure. 

Entering dating has propaganda built into the concept before men and women meet each other. Femininity is a constant that men are attracted to where a tier system may exist, but masculinity has always been a tier system. What masculinity meant in the Roman Empire isn't the same in the Zulu tribe in South Africa nor is the same in feudal Japan.

The cowboy was for a long time called the height of being masculine, but then in the same area were business minded men who had money and it put the dirty cowboy with a blue collar job in a second tier. The third tier might've been the man that a business man would order around. The equalizer to all of them would be having a woman to protect from the evils of the world all tiered men could do to her.

If a man is a bodybuilder and a teenager, his tier would change if a third person would see him next to a police officer. One has untrained muscle and could use them and the other has trained experience and could use it.

Whether the tier system is right or wrong, both men and women use a bias.

 

DATING And How Did We Get Here (part 5)

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Speaking of sexism, an argument could be made of how it effects dating. But, let's study how sexism may have started....Parenting.

Parents set the stage to how children view and interact with the world. Children, when learning the world, try to establish boundaries. Parents who allow children to have antics are sending a message to the child that they don't care, as long as a child doesn't do something drastic that other adults begin to question their parenting skills.

If parents has been questioned on their parenting skills by a school or neighbors, the normal thing to do is for the parents to revert to how parents in the past raised their children as a quick fix.

Later down the line, these quick fix children will become adults and will meet other quick fix adults or adults that simply had careless parents.

Adult 1 was taught how to be a 1950's kid, however Adult 2 was taught to be a 1960's kid. Dating in this case becomes a middle ground between THE HONEYMOONERS and THE FLINTSTONES, it's essentially the same show. Dating may have success.

Careless parents who produce Adult 1 may force THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF BEVERLY HILLS to mingle with Adult 2 who is still on GILLIGAN'S ISLAND and there's no middle ground.

Meeting the parents is incredibly important while dating.

DATING And How Did We Get Here (part 4)

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Propaganda: information, especially of a biased or misleading nature, used to promote or publicize a particular political cause or point of view.

What if you didn't know that you have been given propaganda every day of your life and never realized it? It might have started small with fairy tales and cartoons. Even the fairy tales were chosen to fit a society moral such as THE BOY WHO CRIED WOLF. To a young boy's mind, he was told to never lie, because a real monster will come and no one will believe you. Every fairy tale for young girls ends with the words "Happily Ever After", let's analyze those words. The message girls will learn is to never worry about anything and all their problems can be solved with one man who does whatever. It implies there's no work in a relationship and a girl's life will be happy at all times.

As adults, we know it is physically and emotionally impossible to be happy at all times. Lying is wrong and that's a character flaw. However, it's also a character flaw if an adult grows up with a sociopathic need to be happy at all times. 

In same sex couples, propaganda in dating is impossible because to people of the same gender know exactly what life is like being like themselves. Yet, in straight couples, expectations to fit inside a template made by 1950's dating culture arise. The host wants to be appreciated for their efforts and a guest simply shows up and eats and talks....let's say this is the same with a dog owner and a dog. The dog, however, has never been given propaganda and the animal is intelligent enough to show appreciation. Of course, I'm not saying an entire gender are like dogs, because that would be unfair and sexist.

DATING And How Did We Get Here (part 3)

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In the early 1900's, birth control pills were viewed as immoral. Families were attempting to portray themselves as decent and ethical. Skip a few years with degrading standards in society and the birth control pill was reintroduced. 

Helped along by women, at the time, experiencing many media influences. Dating by definition had concerns by couples. However, the pill eliminated the concern of getting pregnant after a date. And after years of having the concern taken away, later the thoughts of responsibility also went away. Why feel bad about something if somebody will invent something to solve the problem anyway?

Men experienced the birth control pill much differently. They knew about it, they hoped their date had it, and they didn't think nothing more about it. There was a few years men had no idea the Pandora's Box which would be opened.  They would be at home on a normal day 18 years after having sex on a date and they would hear a knock on the door. On the other side of the door would be an adult informing them they were a father.

Women who could not secure a boyfriend or a husband to provide financial support, now discovered an entire new avenue for their future....avoiding birth control and having children. Fishing for financial support from whatever bites.

DATING And How We Got Here (Part 2)

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In the US, 1938 was the year child labor laws began. A generation of children were allowed to have a childhood for the first time in American history. Those children grew up and became interested in the opposite sex and the majority of that new generation who never worked in a factory did similar things that set a template to what western dating must be to be officially a date.

 A teenage boy, in 1950, didn't know the US census which reported men counted as smaller percent of the population as women outnumbered them by 1.43 million, the first time in US history. Even if those women were 45 and older, that teenage boy wouldn't have known the options he had. So, a teenage boy would ask a teenage girl out on a date, maybe on the telephone (an event the boy would plan and execute and host), and the teenage girl would accept or deny based on her high school standards at the time.

The boy would borrow the family car to help him host the event he planned with this object of his interest, and they would be part of a group at a sporting event or the movies. Later in life, the young man would make the date at a restaurant for dinner. If the object of the young man's interest had sex with him depended on many factors. But, those times created the date as we know in our heads.

With each decade the date mutated to fit the customs of the age and the ability to host a date. Sometimes the code words were rearranged such as car/dinner or car/movie/dinner car/dinner/movie. And then in the 60's and 70's sex played a starring role. Such as dinner/sex or car/sex/dinner or sex and maybe a call on the telephone.

In these modern times, with the introduction of the cellphone, the dating template changes according to times yet again, but the code words must be used for our minds to accept a "date" has happened. Yet, for men, the cellphone and dating sites are expectations to host, even if the only thing he wants is sex. For women, their expectations are of free food and fun, never thinking the host will ask them for anything...especially sex.

As of 2021, the male to female ratio is 98 males to 100 females. There was never a rule that stated the host must always be a male and the guest must always be female.

DATING and How Did We Get Here (Part 1)

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Yes, magazines are a dying medium, but hear me out. How much of the Western world is shaped by entertainment and media? I give you a challenge to walk into a store and find a magazine shelf and notice how there's a general theme. And the theme tends to be "Relationships are out of fashion."

Long gone are the hay days of COSMOPOLITAN, MARIE CLAIRE, and GLAMOUR, where random women could read teaser articles concerning their marriage or helping their sex life. Instead, the magazine rack has been invaded by "dentist office" reading material.

In 2016 TikTok was introduced to America, however in 2023, 87% of adults admitted to reading a magazine in the last six months. The internet played a part in eliminating what those $6 dollar pieces of paper did in society...keep men and women capable of relating.

Sure, those articles had lies and writers simply made things up. But, it told men and women to, at least, try to stay together.

In 2012, for China the divorce rate have increased higher then the marriage rate, and peaked at 4.71 million couples in 2019 . Aside for cultural differences that China is governed by, their entertainment medium has Western influence going back to 1988.Yet China only introduced the concept of divorce in 1950.

Since the highest divorce rate is in The Maldives, let's look at their most popular entertainment magazines. It's travel publications. Nothing tells couples more it's time to break up than showing pictures of where they could be in life without another person bringing them down.

Sure, maybe it's all a conspiracy theory....or is it?